Why dig in a relationship, well why dig in general. Yes you will find what you were looking for, but is it truly what you wanted? I mean yes you went in looking for answers but are those the answers you wanted to find or hear? You can tell yourself yes the whole time but when it comes down to the facts, sometimes finding the answers only gets you hurt. And getting hurt is not what we want. We dig to protect ourselves from getting hurt, but in a round about way end up hurting ourselves even more. I mean it sounds ironic but its true. We dig to save ourselves, but end up hurting. Is this karma’s way of saying “trust the people you are with” or is it just teaching yourself not to go snooping and looking for stuff that you shouldn’t be. I’ll admit, I’ve gone looking for something that I thought would help give me closure or save myself from getting hurt, and ended up finding something that hurt me even more. So why do we dig, we know we are going to find something, but is that something what you want to find, or is it just something you think you are going to find. So yeah there are so many reasons to dig, but do they all have a good payoff? You be the judge.






